What is the truth about boundaries? Well one of them is that the boundaries you create are for you, not for the other person So why do we, as human beings need to have boundaries? Boundaries are invisible lines that define a space that we operate in and the outer limits to which we own …
Have you ever been told you are needy? And if you have, what was your reaction to it? This is the power of neediness. In fact, take a moment now and focus on what your reaction or response is to me saying “you are needy” and “you are driven by neediness”. Traditionally, my reaction …
THE QUESTION I am sure during your life, you have asked the question and pondered on “who am I?”, “who is the true me?” This was a question I asked myself when I was sixteen. One I asked out of desperation to not feel what I felt and be who I had become. In fact …
What Differentiates Your Human Self From Your Soul Self Read More »
Patterns of conditioned interaction in your relationships, come from what you have learned and become familiar with, as to what is acceptable and not acceptable. However, they do not necessarily make them right. In this blog, I cover five (and there are plenty more of these) patterns of interaction that I have experienced in my …
Relationship Patterns Of Interaction For Unraveling Read More »
Hate, Hurt and Healing I will never forget the day the deep hurt and pain I felt that had been seething in me for years, boiled over into expressions of hatred. Hate and hurt towards my father. The years of violence and rejection that I experienced in my relationship with my dad conditioned me to …
Kindness is one of the most beautiful human qualities you have. It is delicate, respectful, considerate, attentive, gentle and nurturing in its expression. Yet it can be elusive in your treatment of yourself, your interaction with others, how you treat and approach animals and objects and in what you receive from others. Life, impacting …
Self-Kindness – Reconnecting to the Naturally Kind You Read More »
There is one simple thing that you can do that will make your world better or enhance it – and that is to do the right thing or do more of the right thing. But what does doing the right thing mean? It means different things to different people, different cultures, different religions and even …
“I can feel your pain” are the words I hear spoken to me. My immediate reactionary thought – “no you can’t and don’t you dare tell me you can feel my pain”, “How would you know what I am feeling, you are not me, you don’t know what is going on inside of me”, “what …
For as long as I can remember, the question “how are you?” has triggered so many different responses, reactions and thoughts in people. It has highlighted insecurities, lack of trust, emotional neediness, anger as well as conditioning. How can three simple words become so complex, complicated and an emotional roller coaster? They can because humans are …
The email I receive requests that I write an article on ‘how to start the journey to your true self’. I hear myself thinking “isn’t that just what I have done and sent to them?” OMG and then it begins. I feel my heart start to beat faster and my self-talk starts giving me attitude.“Here …
Follow I Make a Difference
The information contained on the I Make a Difference website, the pages of the book, in the programme or explored during one on ones, is not intended as medical advice or treatment. It is important you consult your doctor or health care provider for medical advice and treatment.
© Globally Make a Difference Ltd 2023. All rights reserved.