Where are you in your journey?
Your soul–human journey unfolds through different phases, calling you to engage with, understand, express, and live the truth of who you are.
Every journey is unique. While our experiences differ, the underlying patterns and threads of the soul–human journey are remarkably consistent.
Each phase brings different experiences, asks something different of you, and has its own way forward.
PHASE ONE
You Are Being Called
Life is asking you to address what is happening within you and your life.
I can no longer stay the same.
You may be facing a crisis, loss, ending, or major change, or you may simply have reached the point where you can no longer continue feeling, being, or living as you are.
You know something needs to change, but you may not yet understand what is happening, what it is asking of you, or what to do next.
This phase asks you to begin making sense of what is unfolding, understand what it may be showing you, and address what now requires your attention rather than simply trying to make it stop or return to how things were.
PHASE TWO
Living What You Know
Life is asking you to address the divide between what you know and how you are living.
I Know a Great Deal — But I Am Not Always Living What I Know
You have come a long way. You have applied the tools, attended the courses, learned, grown, and changed.
Yet while part of you knows what is true, your human may still be responding through fear, old conditioning, familiar patterns, responsibilities, or ways of living that developed through what you have experienced.
You are ready to understand what is creating the divide, consciously work with what is happening, and bridge the gap so more of what you know can become how you live.
PHASE THREE
Conscious Expression and Creation
Life is asking you to consciously express and create from your soul and human working together.
I have changed, but my life doesn’t yet reflect the partnership between my soul and human.
You trust your knowing more deeply and consistently and are increasingly living from it. As your soul and human work together more consciously, how you respond, relate, express, and participate in life increasingly reflects who you truly are.
Your relationships, work, choices, creativity, contribution, and the way you live increasingly reflect your soul and human working together.
More than one phase can be unfolding at the same time.
You can be living from your knowing and truth in one area of your life, while feeling lost, stuck, divided, confused, or unsettled in another.
Becoming aware of the phases, and understanding how to work with what is happening for you, helps you navigate your journey with greater clarity, confidence and, most importantly, acceptance.
Rather than fighting what is unfolding or trying to return to who you were, you can understand what is happening and consciously participate in what it is asking of you.
What might you be experiencing?
What you are experiencing is not random. It reflects where you are in your journey and what this phase is asking of you.
Although your journey is unique, you may recognize yourself in the internal and external experiences described below.
PHASE ONE
WITHIN YOU
You may feel overwhelmed by stronger emotions, persistent chatter in your head, and an ongoing need to understand what is happening.
It can feel as though you are falling apart while trying to make sense of an experience you cannot yet explain.
IN YOUR LIFE
Life may begin to feel unsettled, uncertain, or out of control as familiar ways of living, relationships, and roles no longer feel the same.
What feels like falling apart is often the beginning of a profound reorganization.
WHY THIS MAY BE HAPPENING
You know you can no longer stay the same, but part of you may still be holding onto what is known and familiar because you do not yet fully understand what you are going through or know what to do with it.
And the change itself may frighten you.
What if I fall apart?
What if I can’t cope?
What if I lose control?
What if I lose myself and the people in my life?
What if I let this happen and everything changes?
You may be trying to make what is happening stop, rather than yet understanding what it is showing you and what it is asking you to address.
WHAT THIS PHASE IS ASKING OF YOU
To understand and address what is happening.
Something is changing, but I do not fully understand it yet
PHASE TWO
WITHIN YOU
You are more aware of your truth and knowing, but the same patterns may continue to appear.
The tools and approaches that once helped you create change no longer seem to have the same effect, leaving you frustrated and unsure of what else to do.
IN YOUR LIFE
You can see where your relationships, work, and choices no longer reflect what you know, yet translating that knowing into lived change can feel difficult.
This phase is calling you to stop relying on the tool and learn how to become the tool—but you may not yet know how.
WHY THIS MAY BE HAPPENING
There may be deeper elements of your hurt, conditioning and learned human responses that are still operating, including parts you may not yet recognize, do not yet know how to face, or do not know how to consciously work with.
And although you may have accumulated enormous understanding, you may still not be completely sure what integrating all of it actually means.
You may still be looking externally for the answer, the next tool, the next teaching or the person who can tell you what to do, rather than fully trusting what you know, finding more of your answers within yourself and becoming increasingly able to be the tool for yourself.
And underneath that may be:
What happens if I truly bridge the divide and live what I know?
WHAT THIS PHASE IS ASKING OF YOU
To understand and work with what is creating the divide, and increasingly bridge the gap between what you know and how you live.
I’m being called to bridge the divide between what I know and how I live.
PHASE THREE
WITHIN YOU
You trust your knowing more deeply and are living more consistently from it.
Rather than looking outside yourself for answers, you are consciously creating a life that reflects who you truly are and why you are here.
IN YOUR LIFE
Your relationships, work, choices, and contribution increasingly reflect your soul and true human self.
You are expressing your gifts, making aligned decisions, and creating a life that is built from truth rather than survival.
WHY THIS MAY BE HAPPENING
You may not have realized that conscious expression and creation are another part of the journey.
As your soul and human increasingly work together, the structures that supported the old way you lived may no longer be able to sustain the way you are now being called to express, create, relate and participate in life.
You may know who you are more clearly, while still discovering what needs to change so your life can reflect and support that partnership.
Can I trust myself and the unfolding enough to create differently now?
WHAT THIS PHASE IS ASKING OF YOU
To consciously express and create from your soul and human working together, so the potential of both can increasingly be lived.
I'm ready to consciously express and create from my soul and human working together.
WHY ARE YOU ON THIS JOURNEY?
Because you are a soul having a human experience.
You are a soul having a human experience. Your human experience is not separate from your soul; it is why you are here.
Your soul chose to experience being human. Your human is not something to rise above, bypass, or get out of the way. It is the part of you through which life is felt, learned from, related to, responded to, chosen, expressed, and created.
The journey is to reconnect with the truth of who you are, deepen the relationship between your soul and human, and increasingly have them work together consciously.
As that relationship strengthens, the potential of both can be expressed through the way you live and the life you create.
Understanding the Soul–Human Divide
Throughout life, our experiences, conditioning, relationships, and the roles we learn to fulfill can shape how we experience ourselves and how we learn to live.
Our soul continues to know who we are.
Our human learns, adapts, protects, responds, and develops ways of navigating its experiences.
Over time, a divide develops between what we know within and how we have learned to live.
The greater the divide between the two, the more disconnected we can feel from ourselves, our truth, our knowing, and the life we are here to live.
As you understand more of the Soul–Human Divide, your experiences begin to make more sense.
You become more able to consciously work with yourself as your soul and human increasingly work together in partnership.
THE SOUL-HUMAN DIVIDE
The Divide Between What Your Soul Knows and What Your Human Self Has Learned to Live
My Human
How I Have Learned To Live
Who I Learned to Be
What I Believe is True
What I Do Say
What I Keep Putting Off
I Wait to Be Chosen
My Reality and Interpretation
My Conformity
My Surface
Soul - Human Divide
My Soul
What I Know
Who I Am
What is the Truth
What I Know That I Say
What I Know That I Do
I Choose Me
My Truth
My Individuality
My Depth
How You Live the Truth Within You
I Make a Difference provides a framework for making sense of the soul–human journey, the different phases, and the Soul–Human Divide.
Through IMAD, you nurture a conscious relationship with all parts of yourself and develop your ability to actively participate in the processes unfolding within you.
You develop the awareness, understanding, and capacity to work consciously with yourself through every phase of the soul–human journey.
The IMAD Process

Make Sense
See, hear, feel, and know the bigger picture of your journey and its unfolding, so what you have experienced can finally make sense and reveal its purpose.

Nurture
Develop a conscious relationship with all parts of yourself as you recognize, understand, and learn to work with the different processes unfolding within you. As this relationship deepens, so do your self-trust and self-reliance.

Expand
Expand your capacity to see, hear, and work with the truth, stay with the processes unfolding within you, actively participate in what is required of you, and consciously navigate the soul–human journey with increasing curiosity, openness, acceptance, and self-trust.

Reunite
Trust your knowing as you reunite your soul and human, nurturing their conscious relationship so they increasingly work together in partnership. As this relationship deepens, the way you understand, process, choose, act, and live comes into alignment with who you truly are.

Express & Create
Express who you truly are, so more of your soul and human potential can be seen, heard, and felt. Consciously create, relate, and contribute from the truth of who you are, fulfilling the purpose of your complete soul–human experience.
What You Can Increasingly Do For Yourself
As you deepen your understanding of your soul–human journey and develop your capacity to consciously work with yourself, you become increasingly able to recognize what is happening within you while it is happening and understand what your experience is showing you.
You become more able to recognize conditioned ways of responding, understand why they are surfacing and what they are asking of you, and work with them rather than simply reacting, overriding yourself, or trying to make what you are feeling go away.
You strengthen your ability to hear and trust what you know more clearly, while recognizing the fear, conditioning, hurt, interpretation, and familiar responses that can make that knowing difficult to live.
And as the relationship between your soul and human strengthens, you become increasingly able to navigate change, make different choices, work with yourself through difficult periods, and consciously express and create from the truth of who you are.
This is not about becoming someone new. It is about remembering, reconnecting with, and reclaiming who you already are, and increasingly living from that truth as your soul and human consciously work together.
The intention is not for you to become dependent on me. It is for you to become self-reliant and increasingly able to consciously navigate your own journey.